He might also be afraid to talk about the future with you because he doesnt want to get hurt again, so he is trying to avoid commitment. I second Anonymous 6:22. It sucks really, the "does she like me?" phase is really long and painful for us when a girl never initiates contact. This is not necessarily a bad thing and it could just be that this guy needs some time to warm up. Should I just forget it and leave it there? Just be yourself, not needy, look good, be fun..the rules are bullsh*t. But what if a woman just wants to have sex? I was blown away by how kind and empathetic my coach was. I am not saying all of this so that women can now justify bombarding a non interested man with value-taking texts. The last guys I've dated have willingly initiated every date and pretty much all the contact in between, but seem to miss me writing or texting once in a while to ask what's up.Also, since you say 'men get away with what you let them', I assume women should be the initiative part on the "where is this going" subject? This is kind of nice though because with women throwing themselves at men nowadays, if that were enough to allure men into wanting to commit to them then it would be even harder for women to find a guy who will commit. He wants to make sure that youre interested in him too, so hell just wait for you to contact him first. Thanks for the advice! From my experience women are naturals when it comes to putting up the hurdles (because they are taught that they are the prize) but when they themselves are confronted with a few hurdles to leap from their prospective MAN they usually say WTF--"That`s not the kind of man I am looking for" In effect they are unwilling and unable to pass the very tests that they put the men up to. So, what could have happened is that someone else snatched his attention away and now he only thinks of you when you reach out to him. Nothing like sucking the individuality out of someone by grouping the entire world into two ill-fitting parts. The horror! It's possible he's upset with me for not making time for him. He only has 2 hours then has to sleep to get up at 430 am for another shift! People simply don't talk to each other if alcool is not involved, maybe that's why Stockholm is the city with most singles in the world. I can accommodate to a certain extent that it is 2012 and I have been forced to live as a woman who is independent, but I find a man who is willing to wait for my phone calls and texts unappealing. He was comparing himself to his friend and asked if we had sex and I said NO and its like he wants to make sure he wont get hurt maybe? SECRETS REVEALED Discover how you too can use this little known Dark Feminine Art to weed out the toxic men whilst cultivating real emotional attraction with high value high esteemed men. Thats where all of your answers lie. Here are the top reasons why he isn't taking the initiative: He's hyper focused on the task in front of him. (Also also, just wondering about the diagram - are the light blue and lavender supposed to be reversed? Problem is he was ALL OVER ME. Or should I still wait? It just started becoming second nature. sereusly if you're a woman don't take dating advice from a woman Well, very confusing. He might also be trying to avoid getting his heart broken, which is why he wont make the first move. So then he drove me home and came in for a tea. They gaze at a man a fraction of a second longer than they should. Yet the calling frequency doesn't last. I'm a woman, and feel I am old enough to recognise that every meeting or encounter is different. I recently had a bad experience initiating contact. I had started to like him but didn't initiate anything beyond friendship. Took a taxi to the hotel, and was in the lobby screaming my name.Essentially, find someone that is clearer in his intentions. A guy I used to date sometimes pointed out that "it seems I am the only one making an effort for us to get together". And while it is somewhat regrettable that the relationship never happened, think about how much better of a man he will be once he learns from his mistake. Send subtle signals (initiate) They have done research that shows that 70% of the time in dating, it's actually women who initiate. So, allow yourself the luxury of initiating with a guy. Anyway, regardless of the conditions I would react in the same way: be completely casual and blase. Or are you advising women to be passive wallflowers until cold-approached by a man? Do NOT chase him. Even if the guy is pretty sure of himself, it could be that he went through something in his life that made him afraid of rejection. This is so passive aggressive. You literally pumped-and-dumped your guy-friend.In his mind, why would be in the category of a "nice girl"? He did not say yet he likes me. They tilt their head to one side. That's what most good guys will do. And women select as in they accept a man or reject him. I find it hard to tell. Before that point, I'd avoid this.Bringing up commitment and where you stand is something that (as you suggest) often falls on the woman's shoulders, and yes, in those cases, the girl does need to initiate. What types of people need advice that keeps them passive in dating? I assume it depends on the guy's agenda too (whether he's looking for a relationship altogether).As you know, men's attractiveness are made up by so many things. If You Never Initiate, You Will Lose The High Value Men. There is a guy I like. If you want a guy to be more interested in you, then I implore you to disregard all of the advice given in this article because you will lose good guys and bad guys, alike. At the time, I cut contact with my guy friend. CLICK HERE to find out with this specially crafted quiz! They are calling it a game changer!). But if I would on principle refuse to see him the same evening, it would make it difficult for us to meet up at all. This is not something that only immature men do! "I just meant that some girls are not even potential dates (i.e. The ego is scary and my self-esteem is way more busted than it was 2 days ago before I read all of this. "Fixing your hair the way you did when he noticed you the first time is a good bet. And women who use our high value banter are finding this out for themselves every single day. It may be that creating and maintaining this uncertainty may benefit some women, but there will be those who will take it to an unacceptable and unattractive level. As the one who wrote here, even if she had initiated and they would have ended up a a couple, he would still not have enough confidence to approach women. Maybe guys just need to wait a few years and hold out for women to approach them, women who no longer have time to play these games ( that you say are not games). "Andrew, what are your thought on a woman initiating interest on an online matrimonial site, where everyone's intentions are to find a partner to get married to? If a man is in touch, but doesn't initiate meeting up, should I just reply and play along and wait?He wanted my number, texts me often (long texts), but he hasn't written anything about meeting up again. If he is sporadic/flakey, it means you are simply a side dish or he has other priorities going on. Here's my story. Lets use our thinking caps here. He asked me out on a proper dinner date and we had it tonight. :DRegards,Marie. You reply friendly to every text, but you stop at some point because the conversation can't go for days (given that his last text didn't ask a question).Am I suppose to send the next one anyway or wait for him to text me again? There are too many men now a days giving away their masculinity. SPECIAL REPORT: How to Become the Worlds Most Attractive & Feminine Goddess (Even if you have no self esteem or no man has ever paid you any attention) CLICK HERE to download it at no cost. The women who gets ALL sorts of men approaching them, usually indicates that they send out some very promiscuous signals. Now, for some guys, when they get to a stage with a girl where everything is just perfect, they feel the same way and they are afraid of ruining that moment, so they simply stop talking to us because they dont want to ruin the moment. So now I'm left wondering: did I damage this not-yet-a-relationship beyond repair? Also I don't have his cell number as his friend could be with him but he has mine. At the time, I cut contact with my guy friend.What you know about your own feelings about your married life is irrelevant. It requires coordination, trust, and communication. Now: you can give him some reassurance, but make sure that at some point, he will get over it and finally give you the signs that he is into you, too! No, and I would say no even if you haven't been dating a while. We couldn't stop cuddling and touching legs, feet, bodies in bed and the next morning was magic. This is becoming a rare type of girl as well.Innitiating contact has somewhat to do with this, yes, but taking this as the only indicator is unreasonable.Furthermore, as i resently started with coaching women, if done in the right way, women can do this easily and effectively as i have seen already a few happy relationships coming out of this :-). Like me on Facebook to see more articles like this in your feed. which lowered his confidence. Of course, its also extremely important to give yourself the permission to learn and have your own journey. Is it serious reason to worry?It is a complete mystery to me. CLICK HERE to LEARN the one specific emotional trigger. We sometimes include products we think are useful for our readers. What are your thoughts on a girl texting after a first date, the next morning, to say "thank you for dinner last night, I had a nice time"? What are your goals? Love your blog- it tops my list-- right up there with "what women never hear"--- thank you very much for taking the time to post. I know he already thinks of me as a bit oversensitive. I agree though, at least personally, confidence and masculinity in a man is crucial. "Where is this post? How to end the conversation and get to making plans without initiating/being too forward? The situation you described will hopefully be a learning experience for the guy who had a crush on you. There isn't enough of a trend one way or the other to really generalize and say what most men like when it comes to shyness in women. Yes, as a man, I will do the first explicit MOVE in a vast majority of situations but I need some reassurance from the girl that she'd be at least remotely pleased to be on the receiving end of one. If he reciprocates, great. No thank you! Pretty sure Andrew has a post here somewhere about being approachable, e.g. I'm afraid the guy I'm dating now is thinking the same thing. Would be great if you could mention this in the post. Maybe it is the WORSE indicator ;-). but don't be a slut about it. Thank you.Thanks for an idea, you sparked at thought from a angle I hadn't given thought to yet. But hes still not opened up as much as he should. In it, hell reveal simple phrases and texts you can use to make your man truly yours. "I must have totally hurt her" "Before I go crazy making assumptions, I am going to text her first" "Was I happier then or now?" "Never mind, I will find another one." "Maybe she doesn't like/love me anymore." I have a few questions if you don't mind:What about later into the relationship? We are living, breathing and responsible creatures, I hope. In a bar in the evening, I'm approached quite a bit. I personally say you wait and let him initiate conversation. (to flirt to see his reaction I guess). He's slow moving in courtship. It may not lead to the changes you'd like, but at least you'll know you tried. Address: 10 Hibiscus Ave, Cheltenham, 3192 VIC Australia, Copyright 2023 The Feminine Woman is owned by Shen Group International. Learn to be more approachable and guys will come to you. He still seeks me out at church so we can talk and he had actually started calling me nightly now, but we'd gone from 30-45 min conversations to 12, 13 mins phone calls and I got the sense that it's more that he's touching home base to see if I'm still here than really wanting to talk or get to know me better. If no I can just move on. CLICK HERE to check out my full article archives. Hi,So I have been working on not intimating contactand it seems to be working so far at least better than when I would. - again, gradually but surely. In other words, a secure attachment that allowed them to naturally and intuitively learn the art of courtship and the mating dance. So many women have been using the text examples he gives and noticing that they are able to connect with the high value men better and faster, and repel the low value men faster. If you find that you have insecure attachment or anxious attachment, I invite you to learn how to self soothe anxious attachment. But I have always initiated contact. Two months ago, he messaged me on FB and asked for my number and said we should hang out. If you havent heard of Relationship Hero before, its a site where highly trained relationship coaches help people through complicated and difficult love situations. It means that you feel too scared to take the perceived risk of initiating. Just use some common sense, and let the guy know what you want and set your boundaries. He may need your help?Thanks again.. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); document.getElementById( "ak_js_2" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); I believe you have the power to attract your ideal man, have him fall head over heels in love with you, wanting to commit deeply to you and have the passionate relationship youve always dreamt about. Dildos may be better at giving an orgasm but there is one little thing that only a man's (no, just his erection) can give and that's an ego boost. "You don't owe it to him to answer. I remember reading an article in a newspaper, one of those where you ask a psychologist about your situation. When you pick up that phone and contact him, you risk looking desperate. Its called subtle signalling. Is he just being curious or is he fishing? If he in fact likes you, this speaks volumes about his character. Another reason why guys dont initiate contact but always respond is that they dont want their crush to get bored with them and lose interest! Be human, emotionally engage or send subtle signals and connect with men, despite feeling vulnerable. I've dated countless women and it has always amazed me how little they know about men. It is not like getting a grade in school or something. Not all women want to date and get married. did nt even know he was going to join. Anyway, I really like him. He still contacts me often, and sometimes 'just to chat'.He's asked to see me a few times now - I've held it off as I'm traveling and have exams. So by sending subtle signals and initiating, you get to give him the fuel he needs in order to feel more comfortable approaching you (if he wants to). I am saying all of this so that women might direct their energy in a smarter way and with more efficiency. I guess nothing is out of the question, is it?!). At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex. If you'd initiated, he wouldn't have learned and you'd be stuck dating a guy with no balls.What does SMP stand for? It took him like 5 hours when we were already cuddling to get the courage to kiss me. You've got him, so what does his dating technique matter? When you tell him that you like him but that you want him to initiate contact, he will most likely follow through! The filter works both ways! You can usually tell when a man is flirting with you. Also, what are your thoughts on accepting a man's friend request on FB after say 5 dates? Take Civilization for instance, a game title where you have to manage your people. Neither can a guy, actually, since in the short term he will normally only have girls below his league be receptive. I guess I have a lot on my mind :/. And that it makes him feel wanted and useful and cared for? In your experiences, is it true that a high caliber man will put up hurdles the same way a woman should? We were fully clothed the whole time but talking led to touching and the mother of all make outs :) Nothing sexial happened but I feel like i can 'feel' himI know I turn him on. This is something Im sure all men have gone through at least once in their lives! Then the test result was he was dissapointed, angry and left you so fast and never wanted to talk to you again, dissapeared. If this is the case, then its best if you figure out where you stand with him. It feels like he's ignoring me. Click here to watch the excellent free video. So after this he left and made no plans. 6 hours ago, scooby-philly said: Im good. We have texted back and forth all day a couple times but then I won't hear from him for a day or so. Initially, men can definitely be "fooled" into attraction by a woman's beauty. I'm 21, tall and blonde, and get quite a bit attention from men. The only way you will give off the "slut" aura you are talking about is if you actively pursue men (though this could just be through heavy eye contact, s suggestive smile, etc.). I know, it sounds kind of like a lame excuse, but it is a reason why he might be acting like this! CLICK HERE TO join thousands of other women in our High Value Feminine Women Community. Together with her husband D. Shen at Commitment Triggers blog, they have positively influenced the lives of over 15 million women through their free articles and videos as well as 10s of thousands through paid programs through the Shen Wade Media platform. There seems to be something sacred still left, and it probably keeps mother nature in order. The thing is, youre not even in a relationship yet and already you are starting to feel like you arent good enough? Whish it were not so convoluted. What about women who use the 17 Attraction Triggers? It's not like I'm desperateI have men on a waiting list, lol. But if youre not sure about this at all and you think he might be too insecure to make a move dont push it. Please help! Advice appreciated! Women should text after dates. Heres a link to the excellent video again. The main type of polyphenolic compound found in green tea. On rare occasions that filter will let in guys who actually don't like her and sometimes it will keep out men who actually do like her; but overall she will be better of having it than not. i come here for the fist time ! That kind of behavior is not only annoying, but it can also be extremely confusing! Basically I was going to cancel last minute because of work but something happened and I wound up going. and I said yes. You see, more guys than you think to get really intimidated by intelligent or beautiful women. That being said, if a guy is stunned by her beauty, she probably isn't considered the hottest thing ever by ALL men, so she probably gets approached frequently by them.In general, I think women get approached more in proportion to how attractive they are, but there might be this phenomenon as well, whereby the hottest women (9s and 10s) actually get approached a little less than the attractive women (7s and 8s). He doesnt want to be a burden and he doesnt want to scare you away by being too forward! Then maybe you will come back to his mind when hes ready for a relationship. I would suggest that if you can never initiate, then thats a sign that youre not able to calibrate yourself in a dating or relationship situation. All things you can control. CLICK HERE to find out with my specially crafted 9 Question Quiz! "Or do guys think a woman should be as approachable as possible? Knowing my name, he found out where I live from friends. Even if you have insecure attachment and are an anxious or anxious avoidant type, the only way to begin changing it is to do the very thing you fear you cant truly do. It seems to me that there is much to say about approachability vs. approaching. Could be he likes to chase a girl but at the same time could be he thinks I'm being very unavailable and I actually likes him a lot and don't want to lose him. If you get so anxious and depressed at the slightest hint of rejection, then you should NEVER initiate contact. Normally he would be right to interpret that as dismissal. Today, women do initiate conversations with men, in many ways: simply by walking up to 1 and speaking or through body language. I guess this is one of your biggest fears with this whole situation, right? we met first with our frend had a coffee etc. And should be followed. I know it's not "advice" but can you give any general advice when a guy initiates dating after an ons? Andrew wrote a post called Men that like you will explain themselves, you may find it helpful: http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2012/12/men-that-like-you-will-explain.html I think it's actually worse if you have already been on a few dates. Look, I understand the whole fear behind the advice to never initiate. I can add that he's European (we're both, from a liberal background) where it's "normal" for people to hook up and then become a couple. (A tilted head exposes the carotid artery on the side of the neck and may be a sign of submission and feelings of vulnerability.). You see in online dating, the high value men get snapped up so fast and so hard that youll be convincing yourself that these types of men basically dont exist. As with most women, the amount of guys I see that I actually like the look of and are genuinely interested in, are extremely few. I am a Spanish girl in my late twenties, I lived in the US and in Spain and I never had any issues about waiting for guys to initiate contact with me. (And this is what I mean about catering to one group of guys only the kind who just want to have fun and screw around are in-between relationships and to some level, fear commitment for their own reasons).The only downside to a woman approaching a man is possible rejection (which is going to happen one way or another in ones life anyway. Thats why chasing isnt the answer. Anyway, do you really want to know? I have decided that I won't initate contact unless I am actually dating someone. I understand the fear involved with risk. It's not what I am going to do. The fact of a man not approaching is absolutely not evidence that he is not interested. Is it then okay for me to text him once tomorrow or the day after and say when I'm free and so on? If a woman needs a man to get a child, she needs a sperm donor, nothing else. That is always incidental. So, dont be passive. I used to have a few male friends, and we only became friends because I started talking to them. But then I moved to Sweden! What if your phone accidentally pocket dials them? We are very often guilty of making decisions on emotion alone, without really giving things proper thought or consideration first. He has your number and is your FB friend. It depends on how obvious your test was, if you went completely cold after being warm and open, then you compromised the integrity of your feelings just to test. I've had a lot of discussions with my female friends, to the point where I feel like I have to stop discussing guys with them altogether and act as if I don't need advice, simply because they insist I "send him a text once in a while so that he knows I'm into him too". Do you think adding a girl on FB is a good idea or not? If a guy isnt sure about his feelings for someone else, or if his life is completely chaotic right now and he has a lot of stress going on in his life at the moment (e.g., because of school or work), then it might be hard for him to initiate contact with someone else too. And he sure likes you more than a simple f*ck.You can definately invite boys and let a boy know if you like him.What I am missing a bit in your story is that you don't have unique reasons to like him. Not yet.Why do you like shy guys? Youre not gonna like this, but the first reason could be that hes just playing games with you. True character emerges under "stress" -- and the pleasant, sweet, nurturing, personality that attracted the man --may be proven to be an act(to varying degrees) , when pushed with a little " stress-Fire". "How could you look at a girl in a bar and envision dating her when you haven't even spoken to her? "It really depends. It was effective. At first, this seemed romantic because it meant that he was thinking of you. I don't think they're referring to 2am texts for sex, I think they're referring to any kind of meeting up. I don't judge whether a man's interest in me is due to his need of the moment (purely sexual) or if he's seriously interested in a relationship until he displays the tells which signal to me what I need to know and how to respond - because, often he is not even aware of his motivation. If not, then you have to back of and accept that he isn't interested. Within minutes, you could be receiving life-changing advice on how to navigate and repair the issues youre facing in your relationship. My motto is.."If I want something and am willing to accept the consequences of not getting it, then hey, at least I tried". )The only way a man will think you're a slut for approaching is if you act slutty in your approach, attitude, body language etc. I usually give people three strikes. 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